Everyday we need to make decision in our life either a small decision or big decision. We need to decide what we want to wear, what we want to eat, where we want to study and many more. However, it is not easy to make a decision especially when it involves your future. You might wonder whether you should ask others' opinions or just follow your heart.
First of all. you have to think how the decision you are going to make will impact your life. If it only has small impact on your life, you can just decide without asking opinions from others. For example, you can decide what are you going to eat for lunch.
If you want to seek for advice and opinions from others, make sure you approach the correct person. It is better to ask someone that have knowledge and experiences related to your problem. This is because they can give more information to you which can aid you in decision making. For instance, ask your biology lecturer instead of your history lecturer if you want to know something related to health.
Besides, you can just Google and search for other people experiences in making certain decision in life. Probably you can learn from their mistakes in making decision so that you do not make the same mistakes. Sometimes we do not need to experience something to learn something but you can just observe how others experienced it.
After you have collected all the information needed, you need to list down all the pros and cons of each decision. Do not only see the quantity of the pros and cons but see their impact as well. Then, make the decision based on the choice that you think are the best for you.
It is normal to make wrong decision because human are not perfect. Sometimes you choose the wrong choice in life but do not give up. Try to fix the problem so that your life can become better. There's must be a reason why something happen in your life.
Today's Quote: You need someone to guide you in decision making, not someone that decide on behalf of you. It is good to seek for advice from others but don't let them decide for you.
First of all. you have to think how the decision you are going to make will impact your life. If it only has small impact on your life, you can just decide without asking opinions from others. For example, you can decide what are you going to eat for lunch.
If you want to seek for advice and opinions from others, make sure you approach the correct person. It is better to ask someone that have knowledge and experiences related to your problem. This is because they can give more information to you which can aid you in decision making. For instance, ask your biology lecturer instead of your history lecturer if you want to know something related to health.
Besides, you can just Google and search for other people experiences in making certain decision in life. Probably you can learn from their mistakes in making decision so that you do not make the same mistakes. Sometimes we do not need to experience something to learn something but you can just observe how others experienced it.
After you have collected all the information needed, you need to list down all the pros and cons of each decision. Do not only see the quantity of the pros and cons but see their impact as well. Then, make the decision based on the choice that you think are the best for you.
It is normal to make wrong decision because human are not perfect. Sometimes you choose the wrong choice in life but do not give up. Try to fix the problem so that your life can become better. There's must be a reason why something happen in your life.
Today's Quote: You need someone to guide you in decision making, not someone that decide on behalf of you. It is good to seek for advice from others but don't let them decide for you.
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ReplyDeleteTerima kasih, Kak Sha😊
DeleteBetul! Tiap2 hari kita ni kena buat keputusan. Kdg2 paling susah sekali nak buat keputusan nak makan kt mana (kalau pergi keluar). 🤣
ReplyDeleteSoalan nak makan kat mana tu lah yang paling susah nak jawab😂
Delete"don't let them decide for you" has a nice ring to this post. thanks!
ReplyDeleteMyra | The Grey Lines Between
Welcome. I hope that this entry can inspire all the readers.
Deletekalau dulu zaman2 younger whenever i wanted to make any decision mesti fikir orang lain jugak. but now idk la.. but i think i have to think of myself first. other people kemudian. why.. penat da dulukan orang lain ended up kita terpinggir. now.. we have to decide on what can bring us happiness ^^
ReplyDeleteBetul tu. Apa-apa pun kena utamakan kebahagiaan diri sendiri. Kalau asyik fikirkan pasal orang lain, kita lah yang memendam rasa.
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