People always say that "If you fail to plan, then you plan to fail". How if you already plan but what you get is not as what you expect. It is very disappointing when something does not happen like what you want it to be. How to deal with this situation? Should you just go with the follow or try again? The action that you should take is depend on your situation. Let's see different type of situations that you might be facing now.
First situation is your examination result is below your expectation. If this happen, you cannot just go with the flow. You have to find out the main reason why your result was not really okay. Self-reflection is one of the way that can be used to find the main reason. (click here to read). Once you figure out which subject are you weak in, you need to put more effort on that subject. Maybe you can do study group or always meet your teacher/lecturers and ask them to reexplain certain topics to you. However, you need to be patience to see the improvement in your result.
Besides, you might have to study or work in the field that you do not like. I think this is a common issue nowadays. We can see that many graduates change their career after few years of working. Maybe some of you just go to the university chosen by your parent or you only get offer from one university. Some people may have many choices until they cannot decide but some people only have one choice. You should be grateful because at least you have rezeki to pursue your study in university. Some people cannot even continue their study because of financial problem or they do not get any offer from university. You just need to go with the flow and try to love the course that you study or try to love your job.
Apart from that, you might be facing a situation where you cannot be together with someone that you love. You will face difficulty when dealing with this situation when you love someone more than what you should. Try to think in a positive way. Maybe God wants to give someone better to you. It is very hard to accept the fact that the person that you love is not your jodoh . However, if you redha and try to move on, slowly you will feel better and become more positive. Probably your sadness will be replaced with others good thing.
Today Quote: Your plan might be good but God's plan is better. You should put your trust on him because He will plan the best for you.
*ANNOUCEMENT: I would like to make Motivational Monday as one series in this blog. I will try to post Motivational Monday entry on every Monday in this blog and also on Instagram @thewonderfuljannah
First situation is your examination result is below your expectation. If this happen, you cannot just go with the flow. You have to find out the main reason why your result was not really okay. Self-reflection is one of the way that can be used to find the main reason. (click here to read). Once you figure out which subject are you weak in, you need to put more effort on that subject. Maybe you can do study group or always meet your teacher/lecturers and ask them to reexplain certain topics to you. However, you need to be patience to see the improvement in your result.
Besides, you might have to study or work in the field that you do not like. I think this is a common issue nowadays. We can see that many graduates change their career after few years of working. Maybe some of you just go to the university chosen by your parent or you only get offer from one university. Some people may have many choices until they cannot decide but some people only have one choice. You should be grateful because at least you have rezeki to pursue your study in university. Some people cannot even continue their study because of financial problem or they do not get any offer from university. You just need to go with the flow and try to love the course that you study or try to love your job.
Apart from that, you might be facing a situation where you cannot be together with someone that you love. You will face difficulty when dealing with this situation when you love someone more than what you should. Try to think in a positive way. Maybe God wants to give someone better to you. It is very hard to accept the fact that the person that you love is not your jodoh . However, if you redha and try to move on, slowly you will feel better and become more positive. Probably your sadness will be replaced with others good thing.
Today Quote: Your plan might be good but God's plan is better. You should put your trust on him because He will plan the best for you.
*ANNOUCEMENT: I would like to make Motivational Monday as one series in this blog. I will try to post Motivational Monday entry on every Monday in this blog and also on Instagram @thewonderfuljannah
quote yang lebih kurang "kita merancang, Allah juga merancang dan perancangan Allah lah yang lebih baik". :)
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DeleteKalau akak.. Bila plan tak jadi, selalunya akak ikut flow je.. senang sebab setiap yang berlaku tu pasti ada hikmahnya walaupun kadang-kadang lambat baru perasan hikmahnya.. Kikiki..
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