Introvert is defined as someone who are quiet and do not really like to socialize with others. They prefer to spend time alone and do not like to become the centre of attention.We always hear that our teachers or lecturers advise us to become more active in class and talk more. However, not everyone is capable of communicating very well with other people especially strangers.
In our society, it seems like extrovert is more favourable compared to introvert because they interact better with other people.For those who are introverts, do not be shy with your personality because sometimes it is good to become an introvert.
One of good thing about introverts is that they are a good listener. If you have any problem and need someone to talk, probably you would like to talk to an introvert. This is because they will just listen to you instead of keep interrupting when you are talking. Imagine if you are talking to an extrovert, who are going to listen if two of you are talking at the same time.
Apart from that, an introvert usually speak when they think that it is necessary for them to do so. They will think wisely before they actually speak so that there will be lower chances for them to say something that can offend people. Most of the time, they will not get problem because of their words.
Introverts also tends to have a good observation skills. We can see that they will notice more on others' body language and social expression. This is because they put more attention to see and listen rather than talk.
*Just be yourself as you are special because you are you, not because you are trying to follow others. Do appreciate everyone around you regardless of their personality and stop judging and comparing people in inappropriate aspect.
Today's quote: It is better to remain silent rather than you talk nonsense and hurt others. Talk when it is necessary to talk, not just keep talking without thinking the consequences of your words.
agak sukar memahami individu yg ada sifat introvert..ada cara untuk tangani mereka..
ReplyDeleteBetul tu tapi kalau kena caranya memang mereka boleh jadi friendly dan banyak bercakap. Biasanya introvert akan bercakap dengan orang yang rapat atau mereka rasa selesa.
DeleteYes, just be you. Sometimes, introverts are good in their own ways for certain situation and condition.
ReplyDeleteTrue, we need the introvert to balance with the extrovert. So that, one will talk and one will listen.
Deletejust be you.. tak kiralah macam mana pun personaliti diri..
ReplyDeleteBetul tu, tak perlu sibuk nak jadi orang lain. Kalau seseorang tu ikhlas nak berkawan dengan kita, dia akan terima kelebihan dan kekurangan kita.
DeleteThank you writing about this topic. people are different and their got different personality between introvert and extrovert. Sometimes people love to join their own group. But it can be more interesting if introvert and extrovert be friend or partner. One love to listen, one love to talking~
ReplyDeleteI'm really agree that introvert & extrovert can become good friend or partner because they are completing each other.
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