Best friends are among the people who are close to us besides our family members. They are the people that we want to find when we are facing problems and they are also the people that we want to spend time together to celebrate our success. You may know your best friends since kindergarten, high school, university or even just recently. However, why as we are getting older, they rarely spend time with us already? Does it means that they already forget us because they have new friends?
Please think in a positive way, guys. Probably they are busy with their life. You have to understand that everyone has their own life. Let say they just pursue their study in university. They need time to adapt with their environment. It is not easy to manage their time will all the assignments, quizzes, mid terms et cetera. If your best friends have already working, maybe they are busy with new projects now.
Besides, they might too care about you until they scare that they will disturb you if they keep contact you. We look at it in this way. You just got your first job after graduated and your best friends still waiting for the job offer. They know that you just start working and you have a lot of thing to do. They do not want to disturb you because they scare that they will disturb your time to rest after coming back from work. They do not want you to feel annoy because they keep contact you but not for urgent matter. Why? Because people can become 'monster' when they are tired and stress with their works.
Apart from that, your best friends actually remember you but they do not show it. They might not spend time with you frequently but they do ask about your condition. Some people prefer to just WhatsApp their best friends. If they response to your WhatsApp status and your Insta story, it shows that they actually still remember you. Sometimes they do not ask your condition directly from you but they ask your family members. Who knows.
Do not think negative about your best friends, just pray that they still remember you as their best friends. May God keep your friendship with them last long. If you are thinking about your best friend right now, just take your phone and make a phone call.
Today's Quote: Best friend is not the one who will be with you all the time but the one that will be with you when you need them and you also will be with them when they need you.
Please think in a positive way, guys. Probably they are busy with their life. You have to understand that everyone has their own life. Let say they just pursue their study in university. They need time to adapt with their environment. It is not easy to manage their time will all the assignments, quizzes, mid terms et cetera. If your best friends have already working, maybe they are busy with new projects now.
Besides, they might too care about you until they scare that they will disturb you if they keep contact you. We look at it in this way. You just got your first job after graduated and your best friends still waiting for the job offer. They know that you just start working and you have a lot of thing to do. They do not want to disturb you because they scare that they will disturb your time to rest after coming back from work. They do not want you to feel annoy because they keep contact you but not for urgent matter. Why? Because people can become 'monster' when they are tired and stress with their works.
Apart from that, your best friends actually remember you but they do not show it. They might not spend time with you frequently but they do ask about your condition. Some people prefer to just WhatsApp their best friends. If they response to your WhatsApp status and your Insta story, it shows that they actually still remember you. Sometimes they do not ask your condition directly from you but they ask your family members. Who knows.
Do not think negative about your best friends, just pray that they still remember you as their best friends. May God keep your friendship with them last long. If you are thinking about your best friend right now, just take your phone and make a phone call.
Today's Quote: Best friend is not the one who will be with you all the time but the one that will be with you when you need them and you also will be with them when they need you.
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ReplyDeleteOkay, now I'm tearing up as it's been more than 4 years since I last saw my best friend in Singapore. we still do text each other, Instagram Stories, etc but nothing beats a good face to face session at sushi king.
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I hope you guys can spend more time together after this. May God keep your friendship last long. It is good to keep contact each other although through a 5 minutes phone call only.
DeleteMy husband is my best friend.. Walaupun satu rumah, masanya terbahagi kepada 4 perempuan.. Isterinya, anak-anaknya dan emaknya.. Maka sabar sahaja menanti giliran bersua muka dan bersembang berdua.. hehehe..
ReplyDeleteSabarlah jelah, Kak Sha😂.
DeleteBFF, saling memerlukan dan saling memahami antara satu sama lain. Yang penting sekali, sekepala dgn kita 😁
ReplyDeletePaling penting memang kena sekepala dan ada keserasian.
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